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This is an introduction to our course Healing All Parts of You. You can enroll in the course for free Do you ever feel like there are parts of you that are at war with each other? Like part of you feels one way and another part of you feels completely different? Like there’s an […]

In this episode we delve a little deeper into the patterns that keep us stuck. Dr. Finlayson-fife talks about how to cross the bridge of owning our sexuality in the face of betrayal and defining what kind of sex we want. We’ll discuss the confusing extremes we sometimes feel of wanting to ban sex and/or wanting to have all kinds of sex. And, we’ll see that caring for our sexuality is the same process whether or not we have a partner.

The eighth session of our YouBloom Program is open for enrollment today. YouBloom is one of the most popular and impactful programs that we offer. We only run it a few times a year. This will be the first session of 2020. A great opportunity to start the new year off with a program that […]

Feeling Lost?   Let me start off by clarifying that when I talk about feeling lost, I’m not talking about feeling discouraged or having depression. If you have depression, I encourage you to seek therapy and other methods beyond this video that can accurately address your individual needs. This post is for those who feel […]

When a spouse finds out about the betrayal—from hiding behaviors or an affair—they conclude that they are not safe. Their trauma begins to show in the form of PTSD. Now, how do we see this?   What are the symptoms of PTSD?   Criteria A: Threat to Life. This may not mean that they worry […]

  This is a preview from our course Rebuilding Trust After Sexual Betrayal. You can take this course and others by signing up for free. Have you ever wondered why some couples can work it out after infidelity and others can’t? The research has shown that there are specific things that successful couples are doing. […]

The fourth session of our YouBloom Program is open for enrollment today. YouBloom is an intensive, 12 week program designed for women who want to move beyond infidelity and betrayal trauma. So many women in our community are stuck. They’re fighting, doing everything they can to hold on. To survive each day. They’re exhausted and overwhelmed […]

“Everything feels chaotic. I can’t think. I can’t focus. What he’s been doing is constantly on my mind.” “I have a hard time imagining I’ll ever be able to trust him again.” “I start thinking about my appearance and then my thoughts snowball until I feel so worthless I can’t function. I just crawl in […]

On Tuesday, we opened registration for our YouBloom Program, an 84-day group learning experience designed to help people move forward, to build a future beyond infidelity and betrayal trauma.It’s not therapy. It’s also not only an online course.Instead, it’s a community learning experience. You will be surrounded by a community that shares a connection, all […]

Have you or someone close to you experienced infidelity? Infidelity is not going to go away. In this TEDx talk Dr. Kevin Skinner takes a look at the other side of infidelity and poses the question, does infidelity create PTSD? Over 10,000 betrayed spouses and partners from all over the world have completed Dr. Skinner’s […]