Do you recommend spouses finding some sort of accountability partner for our boundaries?




I love that because the answer is yes. Addiction is about boundary failure and as partners, we have a difficult time holding boundaries. So this is where if you are in a betrayal trauma group, which you guys really in effect are with each other, put your dailies out there and hold each other accountable. We all do better as humans when we are accountable to what we’re doing. So everybody works out just a little bit harder when you have a workout partner, same concept. So wonderful question. And yes.

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